1. What is trauma?
The psychiatric definition of "trauma" is "an event outside
normal human experience." Trauma generally leaves you feeling
powerless, helpless, paralyzed. It tends to be sudden and
overwhelming; it "owns" you. You cannot think clearly during and
after a severe trauma; at the same time, you are forced to focus
your consciousness in an attempt to deal. One author defines trauma
as "any sudden and potentially life-threatening event."
This refers to one-time traumatic events, but most of it applies to
prolonged, repeated trauma as well.
2. Some instances of one-time trauma.
- natural disasters (earthquake, flood, hurricane, etc)
- rape
- assault
- muggings
- robbery
- accidents (automobile, airplane, train, etc)
- fires
3. Some instances of prolonged trauma.
- physical or sexual abuse as a child or spouse
- war
- life in a prison camp
- life as a refugee
- hostage situations
- life in a concentration camp
- life in some religious cults
4. What are the immediate effects of single-instance trauma?
- Emotional
- Shock, including numbed emotions, questioning of
perceptions, memory disturbances
- Denial, which helps reduce terror, helplessness, and
fear of dying or being abandoned to manageable levels
- Confusion and disorientation
- Numbness
- Panic
- Weeping
- Extreme anxiety and insecurity
- Inflexibility
- Dissociation, feelings of unreality
- Cognitive
- Disbelief, another protective device
- Disorientation and confusion
- Difficulty thinking and concentrating
- Unwanted thoughts -- traumatic memories may intrude on
everyday living and in dreams, leaving you feeling out of control.
- Perceptual problems
- The world may seem unsafe, unsteady, unpredictable, and
unfair
- Traumatic memories -- intense, clear, vivid images
- Forgetfulness
- Hyperarousal
- Trouble sleeping
- Trouble concentrating
- Heightened vigilance
- Easily startling
- Being wary
- Sudden tears or anger or panic
- Increased alertness and anxiety
- Body
- Gastrointestinal symptoms
- Headaches
- Allergy symptoms
- Menstrual problems
- The inevitable review
- Trauma survivors spend a lot of time thinking about what they
could have done differently. Truth is, they couldn't have done it
differently -- the body takes over. And the important thing is not
what you did -- it's that you survived.
5. What are the effects (immediate and long-term) of prolonged, repeated trauma?
The immediate effects of prolonged trauma are the same as for
one-time trauma, only they recurs with each new wave of traumatic
experience. The long-term effects include Post-traumatic Stress
Disorder, Complex Post-traumatic Stress Disorder, and a variety of
mental and physical illnesses.
6. What can be done to help survivors immediately after a trauma?
Crucial to helping someone survive trauma is realizing that
you, too, are affected by the trauma, that deciding to help is a
big commitment, and that you need helpers, too.
One of the best ways to help a traumatized person is simply to
listen compassionately and actively, and make the person aware that
you are willing to listen. Reassure the person that there are
realistic ways to make it okay, that s/he can survive, that you are
willing to help.
Offer practical assistance -- running errands, cooking, whatever
needs to be done. Don't just ask; if you see that something needs
doing, suggest that you do it. This is much more effective than
simply saying, "If there's anything I can do..."
DO NOT criticize the person's reaction, minimize the trauma,
suggest it was fate or God's doing, minimize the person's feelings,
or say you know exactly how they feel (a very subtle way of
minimizing feelings. Do not interfere with actions the person has
chosen to take unless they are endangering self or others. If you
think an action is too extreme, encourage the person to slow down
and talk it through.
7. What is PTSD?
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is the name given to a
cluster of symptoms often seen in trauma survivors. The more severe
the trauma, the longer these symptoms will persist. In cases of major
and/or repeated trauma, strong reactions may continue for years.
Symptoms of PTSD can include:
- Hypervigilance and scanning
- Elevated startle response
- Blunted affect, psychic numbing
- Aggressive, controlling behavior (a high degree of insistence on
getting your way)
- Interruption of memory and concentration
- Depression
- Generalized anxiety
- Violent eruptions of rage
- Substance abuse
- Intrusive recall -- different from normal memory in that it brings
with it stress and anxiety
- Dissociative experiences, including dissociative flashbacks
- Insomnia
- Suicidal ideation
- Survivor guilt
8. What causes PTSD to develop?
The simple answer, of course, is trauma. But it's more complicated
than that. During a traumatic experience, you adapt and choose new
approaches that are survival-oriented for the situation you're
in. The problem comes after the trauma, when those approaches and
response are no longer functional. Recovery involves recognizing what
responses are and aren't functional, and getting rid of the ones that
hurt you. In effect, trauma reprograms your reactions very quickly;
recovery is a kind of process of deprogramming.
Some practitioners believe that trauma causes changes in brain
chemistry, changes that are helpful in the short term by reducing the
level of emotion to something bearable but that are harmful in the
long term because they reinforce the PTSD symptoms.
9. What can be done for PTSD?
Healing begins when the survivor realizes that the trauma was real
and had real effects on his/her life, not all of which are adaptive in
terms of "ordinary" living.
Trauma creates overwhelming fear and leaves in its wake a feeling that
the world is not a safe place. Many practitioners (Herman, Colodzin,
Miller, Hybels-Steer, Dee) thus believe recovery begins with
establishing a safe place, a situation within which the survivor can
feel some sense of safety and predictability. This usually involves
developing an honesty about and awareness of the fear. As the fear
subsides, the survivor is able to focus on other feelings and
symptoms, to recognize them, search them for meaning, and decide
whether or not to act on them.
10. What is CPTSD?
Recommended DSM diagnostic criteria, per Trauma and Recovery
by Judith Herman, c1992 by Basic Books.
- A history of subjection to totalitarian control over a
prolonged period (months to years). Examples include hostages,
prisoners of war, concentration-camp survivors, and survivors of some
religious cults. Examples also include those subjected to totalitarian
systems in sexual and domestic life, including survivors of domestic
battering, childhood physical or sexual abuse, and organized sexual
exploitation.
- Alterations in affect regulation, including:
- persistent dysphoria
- chronic suicidal preoccupation
- self-injury
- explosive or extremely inhibited anger (may alternate)
- compulsive or extremely inhibited sexuality (may alternate)
- Alterations in consciousness, including:
- amnesia or hypermnesia for traumatic events
- transient dissociative episodes
- depersonalization/derealization
- reliving experiences, either in the form of intrusive
post-traumatic stress disorder symptoms or in the form
of ruminative preoccupation
- Alterations in self-perception, including:
- sense of helplessness or paralysis of initiative
- shame, guilt, and self-blame
- sense of defilement or stigma
- sense of complete difference from others (may include
sense of specialness, utter aloneness, belief no other
person can understand, or nonhuman identity)
- Alterations in perception of perpetrator, including:
- preoccupation with relationship with perpetrator
(includes preoccupation with revenge)
- unrealistic attribution of total power to perpetrator
(caution: victim's assessment of power realities may be
more realistic than clinician's)
- idealization or paradoxical gratitude
- sense of special or supernatural relationship
- acceptance of belief system or rationalizations of perpetrator
- Alterations in relations with others, including:
- isolation and withdrawal
- disruption in intimate relationships
- repeated search for rescuer (may alternate with isolation
and withdrawal)
- persistent distrust
- repeated failures of self-protection
- Alterations in systems of meaning:
- loss of sustaining faith
- sense of hopelessness and despair
11. What are the steps to recovery from prolonged trauma?
According to Herman and Miller, survivors of prolonged trauma must
first create a safe place. Herman considers the remaining steps to be
remembrance and mourning and reconnecting with the world, accepting
the changes that the trauma has made in your life. Remembrance and
mourning involves grieving both actualities and potentials that were
lost; reconnection is a time of "I know I have myself" -- a time for
seeing the positive changes wrought by the traumas, celebrating the
survivor self, and reconnecting/deepening intimacy with others in ways
that were not possible before.
Miller sees recovery in three stages, too: the outer, middle, and
inner circles. The outer circle is a time for building safety and
rapport and gathering basic information. Middle circle work involves
focusing on current symptoms and how to handle them. Inner circle
work, when trust is deepest, involves the sharing of shameful secrets
and resolving the issues behind the trauma.
12. How do I control and manage the symptoms while recovering?
Many symptoms can be reduced and controlled simply by getting
sufficient sleep and eating healthy, balanced meals. Nightmares can
sometimes be controlled by use of a dream journal; rage and flashbacks
can be prevented or reduced by recognizing triggers and avoiding
them. Reducing your general stress level and finding self-soothing
methods can also help.
Depression and anxiety can sometimes be helped through medication
(antidepressants, anxiolytics, mood stabilizers). Hyperarousal can
also be helped by medication, and older tricyclic antidepressant are
frequently used for insomnia.
Ways to soothe yourself when anxious:
Ritual: for example, a going-to-sleep ritual. Take a long, relaxing
bath, put on comfortable clothing (if you sleep in clothes, and light
a candle by your bed. Turn off the other lights. Stretch slowly across
your bed, feeling your movements, feeling the sheets. Slowly open a
book of poetry and read a page, meditating on the wisdom and beauty of
the poem. Blow out the candle and go to sleep.
Hide under the covers. Take the day off, make a nest of pillows and
blankets somewhere. Turn off the phone. Scent the room. Make a tray of
munchies, using your prettiest dishes, and find a good book. Do
whatever makes you feel refreshed and relaxed, even if it's just
huddling in your nest with munchies for a few hours. Allow the anxiety
to bleed away.
Ways to self-soothe when you are depressed:
Hiding under the covers.
Herbal baths:either make an infusion of herbs (like a very very strong
tea) or put the herbs in small muslin bags you hang in the water
stream or just drop in the tub.
Suggested combinations:
- 1 oz each of pine and peppermint
- 2 oz rosemary
- 1 tbsp ea of patchouli, geranium leaf, mint, orange leaf, sage,
strawberry leaf, woodruff, and rosemary
- 1 heaping tbsp ea of lavender, rosemary, comfrey, and
thyme
For more suggestions, see The Woman's Comfort Book.
Bibliography
Colodzin, B. (1993). How to Survive Trauma. Barrytown, New
York: Station Hill Press.
Dee, E. (1993). War Against the Silence After Trauma:
Unmasking and managing the stress of change. Sioux City, Iowa: Loess
Hills Press.
Herman, J. L. (1992). Trauma and Recovery: The aftermath of
violence -- from domestic abuse to political terror. New York:
Basic Books.
Hybels-Steer, M. (1995). Aftermath: Survive and overcome
trauma. New York: Fireside.
Louden, J. (1992). The Woman's Comfort Book: A self-nurturing
guide for restoring balance in your life. San Francisco:
HarperCollins.
Miller, D. (1994). Women Who Hurt Themselves: A book of hope
and understanding. New York: Basic Books.
Shengold, L. (1989). Soul Murder:The effects of childhood abuse
and deprivation. New York: Ballantine.
Resources on the web for PTSD
David Baldwin's Trauma Pages
mentalhealth.com
http://www.long-beach.va.gov/ptsd/stress.html
